Has a relationship ended and you still feel a pull between you and the other person? Do you feel that when you try to move on, that there is some sort of obstacle that is preventing you to have a healthy relationship? Sometimes we experience past or present relationships that were/are challenging, unresolved and traumatic. It’s the feeling of not having closure. A cord cutting session is beneficial for your livelihood and peace of mind.
Cutting cords doesn’t mean, “I don’t love you or care about you anymore.” Cord cutting doesn’t necessarily lead to break-ups or abandoned relationships. It simply means that you are releasing the dysfunctional parts of your relationships. Remember, fear is the opposite of love, and etheric cords (and all attachments) are created from fear”. – Doreen Virtue
Cords are a method of high speed communication and sharing energy. There are healthy cords which create a nurturing feeling and mutual sharing of information and energy. Unhealthy ones are a huge drain or a means of feeling out of control. They are attached by agreement, but there are other avenues in which people get caught up in their connection. They may have been useful, but outlived their purpose. The cord may have been important when you were younger, but now it is no longer useful; however, the cord remains. Cords aren’t necessarily bad; however, if you find yourself constantly thinking of someone you may form a cord that will drain you and make you feel bad for no reason.
When you feel that “something” is holding you back from experiencing healthy relationships and peace of mind.
When you experience a significant emotional and/or physical relationship with someone, a connection is created between your energetic body’s. There are 2 major connections that are occurring, one that originally attracted you to each other, which is positive, happy, easy, exciting, new and that adds on to all the happy soul experiences in your life. The other one has a heavy emotional impact in your life which can feel like heartbreak, disappointment, negativity, and those energetic cords could have a challenging impact in your life in which you feel that whatever relationship you may experience you still feel the presence of your prior negative attachment. Even though you may not be in physical contact with this person, the energy flows between you and them. You may have long gone been over this relationship for years…but perhaps they still think about you…the one who got away…the one who I messed up with…the one who I treated poorly…etc. If you had an emotional connection = you have cords between each other. Physical connection = cords. Mental connection = cords.o.
We all know when someone is connected to us with their thoughts – it’s innate. We just know it. When we remove the negative cord between you and them – it gives you your power back and whatever you both were holding onto returns to the source. Any negativity gets neutralized. Cord cutting will allow you to get your energy back, regain your trust, and begin to live in your own positive energy field without any unwanted guests. Your relationships improve now that any energies that don’t belong to aren’t in your field anymore.
- Parents – especially if the relationship is/was challenging
- Previous partner’s – following a break up
- Difficult work peers, employees, clients
- Relationships which ended badly
- Friends that are no longer
- Teachers, healers or therapists who influenced you negatively
- Bullies from childhood